- Hardcover: 224 pages
- Publisher: Free Press; 1 edition (23 March 2010)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 1439109125
- ISBN-13: 978-1439109120
- Product Dimensions: 15.9 x 2.5 x 22.2 cm
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- Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #6,08,070 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
The Leader Who Had No Title: A Modern Fable on Real Success in Business and in Life Hardcover – Import, 23 Mar 2010
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About the Author
Robin Sharma is one of the world's most highly respected leadership experts. He is devoted to the mission of helping organizations develop people who Lead Without a Title so that they win in this period of intense change. His clients include Microsoft, GE, FedEx, IBM, Nike, NASA, Yale University, and The Young Presidents Organization. Sharma's books, such as The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari and The Greatness Guide have topped bestseller lists across the globe and have sold millions of copies in more than 70 languages. They have been embraced by rock stars, royalty, and many celebrity CEOs.
Sharma is also the co-Founder of 960vets.com, an innovative online support resource that helps U.S. veterans successfully reintegrate into civilian life.
To read his popular blog and download a free audio program on Leading Without a Title, visit robinsharma.com today.
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Leadership and Success
Are Your Birthright
Nobody succeeds beyond his or her wildest expectations unless he or she begins with some wild expectations.
The sight of an achievement is the greatest gift a human being could offer others.
EACH OF US IS BORN INTO GENIUS. Sadly, most of us die amid mediocrity. I hope it doesn’t upset you that I reveal this closely held belief so early in our brief time together. But I need to be honest. I also should share that I’m just an ordinary guy who happened to get lucky enough to learn a series of extraordinary secrets that helped me become super-successful in business and deeply fulfilled in life. The good news is that I’m here to offer you everything that I discovered on a pretty stunning adventure. So you too can work at wow. And live full-out. Starting today.
The powerful lessons I’ll reveal will be given gently, carefully, and with sincere encouragement. Our ride together will be full of fun, inspiration, and entertainment. The principles and tools you’ll discover will automatically cause your career to fly, your happiness to soar, and your absolute best to fully express itself. But above all else, I promise you, I will be honest. I owe you that respect.
My name is Blake Davis, and though I was born in Milwaukee, I’ve lived here in New York City for nearly all of my life. And I still love this place. The restaurants. The pace. The people. And those hot dogs on the street—incredible. Yes, I do adore food—one of life’s best pleasures, if you ask me, along with good conversation, my favorite sports, and great books. Anyway, there’s really no place on Earth like the Big Apple. I have zero plans to leave. Ever.
Please allow me to quickly mention a little of my background before I tell you about the bizarre yet precious events that shifted me from where I once was to the place I’d always wanted to be. My mom was the kindest person I’ve ever met. My father was the most determined person I’ve ever known. Salt-of-the-earth-type people. Not perfect. But find me someone who is. The main thing is that they always did the best that they could do. And in my mind, the best you can do is all you can do. Once you’ve done that, go home and have a good night’s sleep. Worrying about things beyond your control is a pretty good formula for illness. And most of the things we so concern ourselves with about never actually happen. Kurt Vonnegut said it beautifully when he observed: “The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4:00 p.m. some idle Tuesday.”
My parents shaped me in so many ways. They didn’t have a lot of things, yet in many ways they had everything: they had the courage of their convictions, they had superb values, and they had self-respect. I still miss them deeply and not a day goes by that I forget to appreciate them. In my quieter moments, I sometimes reflect on the fact that we generally take the people we love the most for granted. Until we lose them. Then we take long, silent walks and pray for a second chance to treat them the way they deserved to have been treated. Please don’t let that sort of regret infect your life. It happens too often, to too many among us. If you are blessed enough to still have your parents, honor them. And do it today.
Growing up, I was a good kid. “A heart on two legs” is how my grandfather used to describe me. I just didn’t have it in my constitution to hurt anyone or disrupt anything. I did fairly well in school, was pretty popular with the girls, and played some solid football on my high school’s varsity team. Everything changed when my parents were killed. The ground beneath my feet fell out from under me. I lost all confidence. I had no focus. My life became stuck.
In my early twenties, I drifted from one job to the next, sort of coasting on autopilot for a while. I numbed out and didn’t care about much about anything. I medicated myself with too much TV, too much food, and too much worry—all designed to avoid having to feel the pain that one feels at the recognition of one’s lost potential.
In that period of my life, work was merely a means to pay the bills rather than a platform to express my best. A job was nothing more than a rough way to get through the hours of my days rather than the gorgeous opportunity to grow into the all I was meant to be. Employment was just a vehicle to pass my time instead of an excellent chance to shine a light on other people and a way to use my days to build a better organization—and in so doing—a better world.
I finally decided to enlist in the army. It seemed like a good move to help me feel a sense of belonging and to find some order amid the messiness. I was shipped off to the war in Iraq. And though being in the military did bring structure to my life, it also brought with it experiences that continue to haunt me to this day. I witnessed friends I’d gone through basic training with killed in bloody battles. I saw soldiers who were not more than kids brutally maimed and tragically hurt. And I watched any of the mild enthusiasm that may have existed in my former self wither away as I sank deeply into the muddy, desperate awareness of what my life had become. Even though I’d escaped physical trauma at war, I still became a wounded warrior. And I carried the ghosts of battle with me wherever I went.
One day, it was suddenly time to come home. It happened so fast it was dizzying. I was put on a transport plane, flown home, and within a day or two after some routine medical checks, handed my papers. I was thanked for the service I’d rendered to my nation and wished good luck. On a sunny autumn afternoon, I walked out onto a city street and came to a frightening conclusion: I was completely on my own again.
My biggest struggle was trying to find my way back into a society that had forgotten me. Most nights, I couldn’t sleep—my mind punished with violent memories of the nightmarish scenes I’d experienced at war. In the mornings, I’d lay in bed for hours trying to get enough energy to get up and start my day. My body hurt. I’d feel scared for no reason and could hardly relate to anyone other than my fellow soldiers. The things I used to love doing seemed so trivial and boring to me. My life lacked any sense of purpose or meaning. Sometimes I wished I’d die.
Perhaps one of the best gifts my parents gave me was a love of learning, especially through books. Within the covers of a single book are ideas that, if acted upon, have the power to rescript every part of your life. Few things are as smart as investing in becoming a better thinker and developing a stronger mind. Relentless learning is one of the main traits of an open and powerful person. And an obsessive and ongoing self-education is one of the greatest survival tactics to get through turbulent times. The best people always seem to have the biggest libraries.
So I began to work at a bookshop down in SoHo. But due to my negative attitude and utterly complacent behavior, I wasn’t doing well at the store. I was frequently reprimanded by my manager, and I fully expected to be fired. I was generally unfocused, nothing of a team player, and less than average at my work. My love of books was all that saved me. While those who ran the store despised me for my poor work ethic, the store’s customers seemed to like me. And so I was kept on. But only by a thread.
Now here’s where the story gets really good. One day, a miracle of sorts showed up in my life. When I least expected something good to happen, good came hunting me down. And that changed the game completely. A most curious stranger visited me at the bookstore. And the lessons he taught me in our all too brief time together shattered the limitations I’d been clinging to—exposing me to a whole new way of working and a completely new way of being.
Now, at the age of twenty-nine—amid more success and joy that I could have ever dreamed of—I’ve come to understand that hard times do make better people. That in the middle of difficulty lives opportunity. And that each of us is built to win—in both work and life. It’s now time for me to share what happened to me with you.
© 2010 Sharma Leadership International, Inc.
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To find the BLESSINGS of ur work and notice the DIGNITY within it, whether u run a NATION, lead a FAMILY , teach a CLASS, drive a TAXI , clean the streets or dig GRAVE or break BREAD. 🌏✌️
Blake Davis, the man who bravely fought in the iraq war has now stumbled in the aftermaths of the war. After serving in the American army for a seemingly long period of time, returning back to his normal life has become a very stressful taak to cope up with. It was getting tough to fight the nightmares of the war which continue to haunt him regularly. Amidst all these confusions and turmoil, he met a man of his father's age while working in a prominent book store in New York. The man called as Tommy turned out to be his guardian angel who helped him in breaking down the wall of disappointments and building a monument of abundance success and happiness.
Tommy introduced Blake to the four teachers who taught the greatest lessons of life through a intricately drawn blueprint, which ended up to be the life-changing lesson for him. Through this fable, the author has stressed on the fact that you need no title to become a leader and how each of us have the potential to become the leader of our life. He draw our attention to the power of solitude and how we could prepare ourself for every day by waking up one hour early. Robin Sharma has penned down a very practical approach in helping us to lead in our lives. Also the use of acronyms has made it very easy to remember the four principles of the LWT philosophy. I very strongly recommend this book to every person out there who is serious about making realistic changes in his or her life.
I have recently completed Robin sharma's (THE LEADER WHO HAD NO TITLE) and I highly recommend it to all of you present here to read it once. I assure you all that it will bring a significant change in your life.
This book of Robin sharma's teaches us how to implement those leadership qualities within us in every moment of our life.
So please read it once and even suggest it to your friends, relatives and even to the unknowns.
To conclude this book in one phase, I can say only 2 words. "Develop yourself " rest of other aspects comes next.
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The first chapter is basically a long advertisement of the message in the book. The narrator tells the story of his life and how he became disengaged with life. That bit was interesting. Then suddenly, out of the blue, he meets a mentor who used to know his father, and who is ready to give him this great secret that will magically make him super successful. Come on! Can you make it more believable than that? Furthermore, the mentor goes on for pages and pages and pages about how successful you'll be once you apply the method. But I think it completely misses the spot. It's way too simplistic, and he's way too much in your face for this, and it goes on for way too long.
I decided to still give the book a chance and move on to the second chapter. The same style continued, so I simply rage quit.
All due respect to anyone who liked the book, but for me this is completely unreadable.
I found this book quite basic with storytelling technic for the emotional effect on lives and commitment of mind for the wellbeing of existent.
It is no matter of five or one stars for this review but the good thought of the positive mind for the thinker of this author to change the behaviour for the quality within our selves and that the reward for everyone in same conditioned mind.